• 1. Has your partner ever slapped you or hit you in a fit of rage during an argument or fight?
  • 2. Suppose you and your partner are having dinner with friends and you let out a little burp. How will your partner react?
  • 3. Does your partner call you derogatory names?
  • 4. Has your partner ever forced you into sexual acts?
  • 5. In a fit of anger, has your partner ever destroyed your personal belongings like a cell phone, mp3 player, camera, etc?
  • 6. Suppose your partner has a dislike for a particular friend of yours. What is likely to happen?
  • 7. How often does your partner threaten you with physical harm?
  • 8. Suppose you have a different opinion on a particular issue than your partner. Would you refrain from giving it just because you are too scared to speak your mind out?
  • 9. Do you think that your partner is obsessively controlling and dominating over you?