• 1. Do you flirt with that special someone, without the knowledge of your partner?
  • 2. Do you call/email/message him/her more than once a day?
  • 3. Do you find excuses and reasons to be close to him/her?
  • 4. Do you share secrets with him/her, which you also share with your spouse?
  • 5. Is your spouse unaware of this new close friend in your life?
  • 6. Do you get nervous, if your spouse notices you talking to him/her?
  • 7. If your spouse comes to know about your closeness to him/her, do you simply say 'we are just friends'?