• 1. Do your opinions and observations count in your relationship?
  • 2. Do you always suppress your wishes to fulfill your partners?
  • 3. Do you apologize to him/her now and then for no fault of yours?
  • 4. Are you doing things for him/her, which you would never do otherwise?
  • 5. Does your partner get over-critical about your personality and appearance?
  • 6. Are you spending more time on your partner's hobbies rather than yours?
  • 7. Does he/she make you go on a guilt trip sometimes, by saying things?
  • 8. Do you have to ask him/her before spending on anything?
  • 9. Do you pay the bills, when both of you go out?
  • 10. Do you feel dependent on your partner?
  • 11. Is your relationship more of 'give' and less of 'take'?